It’s not your strategy or even talents, it’s your capacity that goes first!

by | Jul 31, 2023 | All Blogs, Business & entrepreneurship

About my non-conventional approach to the business growth

Most people focus on business strategies, tools and talents they can monetise. And that’s definitely a very important part, there’s no real business growth without it.

…but all that work can go down the drain and feel like pouring water into a bucket with an open bottom if you don’t actually have the capacity to hold and anchor it all.I always said to the leaders I worked with “do you notice you hire people based on their technical skills but fire them because of their soft skills, their capacity issues, their readiness to embody the potential they have?”

I meet so many talented people who have the skills but the moment an epic opportunity comes their way, they blow it up big time.

Here’s why and what I notice:

1. They usually can’t really receive it (often the first block). 

They feel unsafe, triggered into unworthiness, fear and all that kind of jazz. It may be their deepest heart desire to receive it but it cannot even enter their field and they sabotage it consciously or subconsciously because their nervous system and receiving capacity is not there to let it ground.

2. If they can receive it, they don’t have the capacity to hold and manage it

They sabotage it in many different ways: with unhealthy relational style (people do business with people in the end), deplete their energy, hide or disown their gifts and project difficulties on others by not having clear structures, boundaries, unhealed relationships with money and hindering themselves by not stepping in their power. The list goes on… But in a nut shell, it’s all capacity that limits stuff.

I believe it’s actually your capacity work which comes first. Strategies land in that more efficiently, more easfully like a glove to your hand when there is expanded capacity to hold it. And your gifts unfold in the deepened capacity path more naturally, crystalised and with more impact.

I am paradigm shifter, rebel, visionary, seer with extrasensory abilities, healer of old & architect of new business approach, trauma informed somatic & nervous system mentor, capacity based business growth creator and pioneer of the soft power & gentle leadership movement.

I’m obsessed about self-tenderness and I’m devoted to preserving our innocence, purity, caring hearts, and wonder.

My mission is to make this world a more welcoming place for sensitive, gentle but rebelious, ambitious and big-hearted souls. I want them to not only belong here but thrive, create & powerfully lead their movement!

My life’s work focuses on grounding our innate nature and bigger potential through heart based business, capacity based entrepreneurial journey and gentle but powerful self leadership — and even more importantly, learning to do so with ease, natural flow, deeper intimacy and life’s delightful joys.